Community Guidelines
Version 1.3 · Updated November 8, 2026
These Community Guidelines explain how members are expected to behave on ECLIPSE, a consent-first lifestyle community for adults age 21 and older. They supplement the Terms of Service, and a violation of these Guidelines is a violation of the Terms. The short version is simple. Consent comes first, no means no, privacy is respected, nothing commercial or coercive belongs here, and everyone is responsible for their own conduct online and at events.
1. Consent First
Consent must be clear, informed, freely given, specific, and revocable. Silence, a prior connection, a prior meeting, a ticket purchase, a subscription, or a previous yes to something else is not consent. Any member may decline or withdraw consent at any time, for any reason, without explanation, and that decision must be respected immediately.
Ask before touching, before sending explicit media, before recording or photographing, before sharing private details about another member, and before inviting someone into a private space or a private conversation beyond the level they have accepted. Check in as circumstances change, and stop when a partner shows hesitation, discomfort, intoxication that impairs judgment, or any sign that consent is no longer freely given.
No one owes anyone a reply, a meeting, a call, or intimacy. Pressuring a member after a refusal, including through repeated messages, new accounts, friends acting as messengers, or showing up uninvited, is a serious violation.
2. Respectful Communication and No Harassment
Treat members as people, not as profiles to collect. Open with respect, accept a short or absent reply gracefully, and keep first contact inside the boundaries and preferences a member has chosen to share. Explicit opening messages, graphic descriptions, and unsolicited explicit media are prohibited unless the receiving member has clearly invited that kind of contact in a context that applies to you.
Harassment is prohibited. This includes threats, intimidation, hate-based abuse, slurs aimed at a member, stalking, following a member across events or platforms after being blocked or refused, doxing, blackmail, outing a member lifestyle participation to employers, family, or the public, and encouraging others to target a member.
Respect blocks and reports as final signals. If a member blocks you, do not attempt to contact them through another account, another member, an event guest list, or an outside channel you learned about through ECLIPSE.
3. No Solicitation or Prostitution
Solicitation and prostitution are prohibited on ECLIPSE in every form, as stated in the Terms of Service zero tolerance rule. Do not offer, request, hint at, or negotiate money, gifts, rent, travel, dinners, or anything of value in exchange for sexual activity, companionship presented as a paid sexual service, or attendance that is conditioned on such an exchange.
This rule covers coded language, price lists, donation language, sugar arrangements presented as a condition of intimacy, links or handles that point to paid sexual services, and event tiers or perks structured to sell sexual access. Genuine social generosity between members who already know each other is not the target of this rule. Conditioning access, time, or intimacy on payment is.
Sex trafficking, coercion, and exploitation are prohibited absolutely and will be reported as described in the Terms of Service. If you are being pressured or you see someone else being pressured, use the report tools and, in an emergency, contact local emergency services first.
4. No External Links
Links cannot be shared here. Everything you need is inside ECLIPSE. Members may not post, send, or display external links, website addresses, payment handles, social media handles, QR codes pointing outside the service, or instructions for finding them off the platform in profiles, messages, event listings, photos, or usernames.
This rule protects members from scams, solicitation funnels, non-consensual exposure, and off-platform conduct that our safety tools cannot reach. It applies even when the outside destination seems harmless. Hosts and partners may only use outside references that ECLIPSE itself provides and approves inside host or partner features, clearly labeled as platform inventory.
If another member tries to move you outside ECLIPSE quickly, asks for payment outside the service, or sends a disguised link, treat it as a warning sign, stop, and report the conversation.
5. Identity Verification and Honest Profiles
Be the person your profile describes. Use recent, accurate photos of yourself, state your age truthfully, and describe your relationship structure, boundaries, and intentions honestly. Couples profiles must involve both partners real participation and consent, and a partner may not present a couple profile or act for the couple alone where the service requires both partners approval.
Complete identity verification when it is required for your account or for a feature or event, and do not help another person evade verification, age checks, bans, or attendance limits. A verified badge confirms only that the verification steps were completed. As stated in the Terms, ECLIPSE does NOT conduct criminal background checks, and no member should describe a verified badge to another member as a background check or as a safety guarantee.
Impersonation, catfishing, using another person photos, and creating a profile for a person who does not exist or who has not consented are prohibited and will result in closure.
6. Events and In-Person Conduct
Events are extensions of the community, and consent, privacy, and respect rules apply with full force in person. Follow the host stated rules, the venue rules, and applicable law. Respect photography rules at each event, which default to no photography of other guests without explicit permission. Respect dress, arrival, and departure instructions, and never disclose an event address, guest list, or host home information outside the guests who received it for that event.
Watch your own alcohol and substance use, look out for incapacitation in others, and intervene or alert a host or staff member if someone cannot consent or needs help. Hosts may remove any guest whose conduct creates a safety or consent concern, without debate at the door, subject to the refund rules in the Refund Policy and Host Terms.
What happens at an event stays private. Do not identify, describe in identifying detail, photograph, or discuss other guests outside the event with anyone who was not there and entitled to know.
7. Photos, Media, and Privacy of Others
Post only media you have the right to post, showing only consenting adults age 21 or older. Never post, save for redistribution, screenshot for sharing, or send onward another member private or chat media without that member consent. The watermarking described in the Privacy Policy may identify the viewing member on copies of private and chat media, and redistribution can be traced and enforced.
Do not record video calls, calls, or in-person encounters without the express consent of everyone involved. Video calls on ECLIPSE are never recorded by ECLIPSE, and that protection depends on members honoring the same rule.
Do not share another member legal name, workplace, address, phone number, family details, or other personal information that you learned on ECLIPSE or at an event, on or off the platform, without that member explicit permission.
8. Reporting, Blocking, and Enforcement
Report conduct that violates these Guidelines using the report tool on the profile, message, media, or event involved, or contact support@eclipselsapp.com. Include what happened and preserve the in-app conversation where you can. Reports are reviewed by our team, and reporters are not told the private details of another account enforcement beyond what they need to know that the report was handled.
Blocking is instant, free on every plan, and requires no justification. A blocked member cannot contact you through the blocked account, and attempts to evade a block are an independent violation.
Enforcement is proportionate and may include a warning, content removal, loss of a feature, event removal, suspension, or permanent closure, depending on severity, intent, harm, and history. Serious violations, including conduct involving a minor, trafficking, coercion, non-consensual media, threats, or prostitution facilitation, result in immediate closure and, where appropriate, referral to law enforcement. A member may appeal an enforcement decision by writing to support@eclipselsapp.com with the account email and a concise explanation, and appeals are decided on the record we hold.